Divorce statistics are increasing every year. It doesn’t need to be this way. Marriages require hard work and dedication, just like everything else. What you put in is what you get out. Believe me when I tell you that the first year of marriage can be the foundation for a successful relationship. This is what I have learned from my own marriage and those of my friends.
- You and Your Partner Are in a 50/50 Partnership: You will not be able to progress in a relationship if you have outdated ideas from the 1950s. Women don’t need to be tied down to the stove, and men aren’t hunters anymore. Try to remember this if you come home from work to a messy house or no dinner. Your wife might have spent the day running after your kids if you have them. If she worked, her day was probably just as tough as yours. Your wife doesn’t have to be your servant if she is at home. You may cook and clean some days, and she might do it other times. It’s 50/50.
- You Are Not the Same: It may seem obvious, but “Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus,” the book that inspired the title, sold millions of copies. Men usually want to relax and do nothing when they come home from work. You could watch TV, play pool, or read a novel to change your mood. Women, on the other hand, want to chat.
- Sex is Important: You’re fooling yourself if you think it’s not important. It was probably the physical attraction that brought you two together. It can be difficult if you and your partner have different sexual drives.
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